Indlela Yokuhlela Imihlangano Yezinsuku Ezingu-21 Zokuzingcwelisa

Isingeniso

Inhloso yalesi sihloko ukukunikeza izinyathelo ezicacile nezisebenzayo zokuhlela imihlangano yezinsuku ezingama-21 zokungcweliswa. Ungathola futhi izinsiza ezengeziwe kuwebhusayithi yethu ezinesiqondiso esisebenzayo sendlela yokusiza nokuhola le mihlangano phakathi nezinsuku ezingama-21.

Okokuqala, uma kusebenza, susa konke ukwesaba noma ukungabaza. Ungakholwa amanga okuthi awukwazi ukukwenza lokhu. UNkulunkulu ukubeke ngobukhosi endaweni yakini, esikoleni, nasemphakathini—futhi kuyintando Yakhe ukuthi iSonto Lakhe lihambe ngobunye (Johane 17:22).

Ngezinsiza ezitholakala kule webhusayithi, uzoba nakho konke okudingayo—imiyalelo eqondile, evivinywe yiZwi nangolwazi—ukuqoqa abanye abakholwayo ngaphakathi kwethonya lakho.

Lokhu kulula. Futhi uma usenemibuzo ngemva kokufunda, vele uxhumane nathi—sizokusiza ngenjabulo. Awuwedwa kulokhu!

“Inkazimulo onginike yona ngibanikile bona, ukuze babe munye njengalokhu thina simunye, mina ngikubo, nawe kimi, ukuze babe munye ngokuphelele, ukuze izwe lazi ukuthi ungithumile, wabathanda, njengalokho ungithandile.”(Johane 17:22-23)

Izinyathelo Zokuqala

1. Thandaza kuqala. UJesu unguMholi weqiniso wale mibuthano. Mcele isu lakhe futhi akugcwalise ngolwazi lwentando yakhe (Kolose 1:9).

2. Vumela uMoya uhole. Idolobha ngalinye lihlukile. Iqembu ngalinye lihlukile. Lalela lokho uNkulunkulu akufunayo ngesimo sakho esithile.

3. Ungumnikazi womsebenzi. Yizame lokhu ngentshiseko efanayo naleyo obungayenza uma uhlela umcimbi wenkundla yezemidlalo. Kungani? Ngoba lokhu kukhulu nakakhulu—kungoJesu ukuthi azuze idolobha lakho nesizwe sakho! Sebenzisa izinsiza ezinikeziwe, dala ezakho, wabelane ngesibindi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, uqophe amavidiyo, ushayele abangani, futhi ube nenhloso. UNkulunkulu ukubeke lapho ukhona khona ngesikhathi esinjengalesi.

4. Mema, ungacindezeli. UJesu watshela abafundi bakhe ukuthi bafune “umuntu wokuthula” (Mathewu 10:14). Abanye bazothi yebo, kanti abanye ngeke. Gxila kulabo abazimisele.

   
   

Okufanele Ukhulume Ngakho

Ngaphambi kokumema abanye, funda iwebhusayithi bese ubuyekeza izinsiza zangaphambilini.

Sinikeze imilayezo eyisibonelo, kodwa khumbula: isimemo esiphumelela kakhulu sivela enhliziyweni yakho. Yiba qotho, yiba ngumuntu siqu, futhi wabelane ngokuthi kungani lokhu kubalulekile kuwe.

Izincazelo ezibalulekile, uma abantu bebuza noma uma unomuzwa wokuthi ziyadingeka:

• Lo mkhankaso awuphathelene namahlelo, izinkonzo, noma abaholi, kodwa umane nje ungumzimba kaKristu olalela iZwi likaNkulunkulu.

• Ukungcweliswa Komhlaba Wonke kuyinhlangano—hhayi inkonzo. Simane sikhonza uMzimba kaKristu.

• Ukubhalisa akusho ukuzibophezela ezinsukwini ezingu-21 ezigcwele noma ukuzibandakanya neqembu. Kumane kuvumela abantu ukuthola izinsiza kanye nezibuyekezo.

• Akukho mali. Le mihlangano imahhala ngokuphelele. Sincoma ukuthi kungabikho minikelo ethathwayo. Kodwa-ke, uma ungumfundisi futhi udinga ukuthola iminikelo evamile yesonto lakho, lokho kufaneleke ngokuphelele. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ungabeka ibhokisi leminikelo elilula ngemuva kwanoma ubani ofisa ukunikela ngokuzithandela.

  
  

Futhi ungakhohlwa ukusho ukuthi lokhu kuyinhlangano yomhlaba wonke. Amakholwa emazweni angaphezu kwe- 110 alungiselela ndawonye. Njengoba sihamba ngokulalela ndawonye, ​​​​kukhona umusa omkhulu.

Ifomethi Ejwayelekile Yezinsuku Ezingama-21

• Umhlangano owodwa ngosuku (omibili, uma kungenzeka).

• Amanye amasonto nawo ahlela umthandazo oqhubekayo wamahora angama-24.

• Umhlangano ngamunye uthatha cishe ihora eli-1-2.

• Imihlangano ihlanganisa ukuhlangana, ukukhulekela, ukuphenduka, kanye nokunxusa.

• Akukho ukushumayela—lezi akuzona izinkonzo zesonto ezivamile.

• Ngezinye izikhathi, kungase kube nesikhuthazo esifushane noma ividiyo emfushane yokunikeza isikhuthazo nesiqondiso.

• Wonke umuntu uyamenywa ukuba ahlanganyele ngenkuthalo.

Izinhlobo Zemihlangano

• Inkundla yezemidlalo

• Umphakathi (iplaza, umgwaqo, njll.)

• Isonto elinamasonto amaningi

• Isonto lendawo

• Ikhaya

• Isikole

  
  

1. Imihlangano Yomuzi Wonke (Emabandleni Amaningi)

Uma ungumfundisi, usomabhizinisi, noma umholi, cishe usuvele wazi amanye amakholwa amaningi edolobheni lakini. Sebenzisa lawo maxhumano ngesikhathi esinjengalesi!

Izinyathelo:

1. Bhala uhlu lwabakholwayo abanethonya (abelusi, abaholi bebhizinisi, abaholi bezinhlangano, abantu abanethonya).

2. Landa incwadi yethu yesimemo esiyimodeli (etholakala kuwebhusayithi) bese uyivumelanisa ukuze ibe ngeyomuntu siqu uma umazi lowo muntu.

3. Noma nini lapho kungenzeka, shayela ucingo noma uthumele umyalezo mathupha—ungagcini nje ngokuthumela ulwazi.

4. Bacele ukuthi babhalise kwiwebhusayithi ukuze bathole izinto abazidingayo.

5. Londoloza oxhumana nabo balabo abasabela kahle.

6. Xhumana nabanye abefundisi futhi nithandaze ndawonye ngaphambi kwezinsuku ezingu-21.

7. Nquma isikhathi esingcono kakhulu semihlangano (ekuseni noma kusihlwa).

8. Khomba izindawo ezingaba khona. Lungisa izimvume uma kudingeka. Beka phambili amasonto noma izindawo ezifinyeleleka kalula ezinezihlalo ezanele, indawo ephephile, nezinye izinsiza ezidingekayo.

Okubonwe:

• Uma kuhileleke amasonto amaningi futhi indawo ingenkulu ngokwanele, cabanga ngokusingatha imihlangano engaphezu kowodwa ngosuku.

• Shintshanisa izindawo zemihlangano ukuze wabelane ngemithwalo yemfanelo phakathi kwamasonto ahlanganyelayo.

• Uma uNkulunkulu ekuholela endaweni yomphakathi, thandaza kanye nabanye abefundisi ngezinyathelo ezilandelayo.

• Ukukhulekela kuyinto ongayikhetha ezinsukwini zokuqala ezingu-14. Khetha abaholi bokukhulekela abaziwa ngokugcotshwa kwabo nokuba khona kukaNkulunkulu, hhayi nje ngekhono labo lomculo.

2. Imihlangano Emincane

Nesonto Lakho Lendawo (Abelusi)

Uma abanye bengajoyini, hola isonto lakho phakathi nezinsuku ezingu-21. Memezela ngesikhathi senkonzo yakho, sebenzisa izinsiza ezitholakalayo, bese uhola ngentshiseko. Ibandla lakho lizolandela isibonelo sakho.

Amakhaya

ISonto lokuqala lalihlangana emakhaya amakhulu eminyaka. Okudingayo nje izinhliziyo ezivulekile nezihlalo ezimbalwa.

Mema abangani, omakhelwane, kanye namakholwa avela emabandleni ahlukene. Uma kuwusizo, shintshanisa amakhaya phakathi nezinsuku ezingu-21.

Uma ukukhulekela bukhoma kungatholakali, izingoma zokukhulekela eziqoshiwe zingasetshenziswa.

Izikole Namanyuvesi (Abafundi)

Mema okholwa nabo, yakhani ingxoxo yeqembu, bese niqala ukuhlela ndawonye. Uma isikole sakho noma inyuvesi inemingcele, silungiselele incwadi eyisibonelo ongayisebenzisa lapho ukhuluma nomphathi. Ekugcineni, khumbula izEnzo 5:29:

“Kumelwe silalele uNkulunkulu kunabantu.”

Qala Wedwa

Uma kungekho omunye umuntu okulungele okwamanje, qala ngomndeni wakho—noma ngisho nawe wedwa. Qala ukuthandaza, ukuphenduka, nokuzingcwelisa kuleli sonto.